My husband suggests he doesn’t find group work or counseling helpful and that some groups are even condoning masturbation. I want him to want to recover for himself, not just go because I place an ultimatum. But I’d feel safer if he were plugged in to some type of support group. He has had a dozen one night stands since 2012 and compulsively used pornography and masturbation for decades before our marriage in 2006. He supposedly had gone almost an entire year before his latest relapse a few days before Christmas. Should I be insisting on group or counseling as a non-negotiable?