Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I was the unfaithful spouse in our relationship and I have noticed that anytime I do anything that frustrates my wife, things not necessarily related to the affair, I still find myself assuming that her frustration for the current thing will trigger her anger about the affair. I immediately make the jump in my mind that she is bringing up everything I have ever done in her head and I get indignant. Is it normal for me to be worried that her every sign of anger will automatically bring her back to my affair? How can I change that attitude in my own mind?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryStrengthening MarriageRL_Media Type: Video