I feel as though I have had to really do serious painful work through this process. I have wanted to get a divorce and not deal with this again. I have had to constantly remind myself why I am committing to this process. I have taken it seriously. I make my recovery and this program a priority. Yet, I see my spouse make every excuse under the sun as to why he cannot finish or do the work. Quite honestly he waits until right before our call to make a half attempt at answering ONLY the questions that will be asked in our group call. He says that at least he is participating and I should give him more credit for what he’s doing. I tried that but it’s clearly holding Is back. How do I handle this?