All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Are you sure it's that you didn't know, or just that you knew it but didn't care at the time? 1/10/2011 My wife cheated and I feel like I'm being overly sensitive and doing most of the work 1/10/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 17 1/10/2011 How do I handle intrusive thoughts expcecially during sex? 1/03/2011 My mate doesn't want joint bank accounts, do I need to be worried? 1/03/2011 What can I do if he doesn't want to change or talk to anyone or do anything? 1/03/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 10 1/03/2011 It's the one year anniversy of the disclosure, is it normal for me to be feeling such saddness or am I just feeling sorry for myself? 12/22/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on January 3 12/20/2010 Surviving the Holidays 12/15/2010 How do I know if my mate has been honest with me and would a polygraph exam help? 12/14/2010 My husband refuses to talk about his infidelty and just wants me to get over it, do you have any thoughts on how to get him to address the infideltiy? 12/13/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on December 20 12/13/2010 The more my wife digs into trying to understand why the more discouraged she gets, Why is this so hard? Is she going to give up? 12/08/2010 Since what I did was wrong and unjustified, how is it that he can or should be empathetic? He wants to work toward forgiveness but doesn't see how this this fits 12/08/2010 We're 8 months into recovery and my mate seems to be getting more disconnected it that normal? 12/08/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on December 13 12/08/2010 I don't think my wife gets it and I'm still hurting, is that normal and can you give me feedback? 12/04/2010 An Extraodinary Life 12/01/2010 My husband keeps blaming the marriage for his affair, how do you feel about this and how do we repair our marriage? 11/30/2010 Why are the hollidays so hard and what are tips for reclaiming peace and celebration? 11/30/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on December 6 11/30/2010 Are their other motivating factors besides sexual desire that can cause someone to act out sexually? 11/23/2010 Is it normal for me to have more sexual desire for my mate as we go through this process? 11/23/2010 How do the addictions of parents impact their children? 11/23/2010 Is my mate telling me the truth about parts of his memory being blank when it comes to his pattern of acting out, is that possible? 11/23/2010 I am finding that others in my life are now triggering the same feelings of betrayal that I experieced with my mate's betrayal, is that normal? 11/23/2010 What does God think about Facebook 11/23/2010 How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 11/18/2010 Does blackmail ever play a role in a person's continuing an affair? 11/16/2010 How do I respond to my mate's failure to be totally truthful with me? 11/16/2010 I think I'm beginning to understand why my mate acted out 11/16/2010 Is something wrong with me if I still can't make a decision as to what to do a year after discovery? 11/16/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 29 11/16/2010 Can self-loathing serve as a motivating factor in sexual abuse? 11/16/2010 Do some people act out as a form of self punishment? 11/16/2010 How can I be sure my mate is done with his affair partner? 11/16/2010 Is it normal to feel triggered during the Holidays? 11/16/2010 Is it wrong for me to continue to want to process the affair even if my mate just wants to move on? 11/16/2010 What can I do to make the holidays bearable? 11/16/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 15 11/09/2010 How do you respond to blackmail? 11/03/2010 How do I move beyond the chaos created by my mate's relapse? What do I focus on? 11/02/2010 Rick's Q & A Call on November 8 11/02/2010 How does recovery differ if my mate has had mutiple affairs versus a single affair? 11/02/2010 We Started Well, but... 10/20/2010 Am I normal if I'm having problems reconnecting at 6 months in recovery? 10/19/2010 What is some good reading for me and my mate while we're in recovery? 10/19/2010 Should I be jealous if my wife seems to enjoy the company of others more than me? 10/19/2010 Is it wrong to tell others about my parents and how they've impacted me and their role in my recovery? 10/18/2010 Pages« first‹ previous…909192939495969798next ›last »
