I was the cheater. There were major issues in our relationship on both parts leading up to the incident . I found someone to fill the void.. I made a huge mistake… We separated for a year then decided to get back together to work it out. 8 years later and he still throws I it in my face every chance he gets. Tells me every day he will never trust me again and tells me he will never love me the same. Why I stay. I couldn’t tell you. Maybe I feel like this is my penance and I don’t deserve to be happy and I’m trying to make up for it ? Please dont make the cheater feel like my man does to me. You need to make up your own mind weather you can/will trust him again. Or move on. It’s not fair for you to be in this turmoil nor is it fair to lead on your mate if you’re never really going to forgive them.
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I was the cheater. There were major issues in our relationship on both parts leading up to the incident . I found someone to fill the void.. I made a huge mistake… We separated for a year then decided to get back together to work it out. 8 years later and he still throws I it in my face every chance he gets. Tells me every day he will never trust me again and tells me he will never love me the same. Why I stay. I couldn’t tell you. Maybe I feel like this is my penance and I don’t deserve to be happy and I’m trying to make up for it ? Please dont make the cheater feel like my man does to me. You need to make up your own mind weather you can/will trust him again. Or move on. It’s not fair for you to be in this turmoil nor is it fair to lead on your mate if you’re never really going to forgive them.