My husband of 30 years had a gay sex addiction. It went on for six years, starting after 20 years of marriage. I found out last spring. He told me he had contracted an std. He said it escalated from porn to anonymous m2m sex at a bookstore. I have been working on healing myself and he is dedicated to saving our marriage. We have made good progress. He has always been attracted to me and our sex life was good. I don't know what to make of this. Could he be in denial? Wouldn't I know? What if he needs both to satisfy him? I can't live with that. What if this is a perversion of sex addiction? Can he recover? He said he didn't really feel he was cheating because he did not have an affair with a women. I've been through the worst of this now and I'm working on myself and how I will live my future.
Cheating sex addict
My husband of 30 years had a gay sex addiction. It went on for six years, starting after 20 years of marriage. I found out last spring. He told me he had contracted an std. He said it escalated from porn to anonymous m2m sex at a bookstore. I have been working on healing myself and he is dedicated to saving our marriage. We have made good progress. He has always been attracted to me and our sex life was good. I don't know what to make of this. Could he be in denial? Wouldn't I know? What if he needs both to satisfy him? I can't live with that. What if this is a perversion of sex addiction? Can he recover? He said he didn't really feel he was cheating because he did not have an affair with a women. I've been through the worst of this now and I'm working on myself and how I will live my future.