My husband was the unfaithful party and we just passed our 29th Anniversay. It was a difficult day, but my approach was to acknowledge this day in a very small way. Coming right after Christmas was difficult too, but we were able to acknowledde that we wanted to do something for each other that conveyed a thoughfulness for the others interests. Now, Valentines Day doesn't seem as daunting. Still don't know if I want to stay together with him but can stand to see his face now!
The Day After Valentines Day...
My husband was the unfaithful party and we just passed our 29th Anniversay. It was a difficult day, but my approach was to acknowledge this day in a very small way. Coming right after Christmas was difficult too, but we were able to acknowledde that we wanted to do something for each other that conveyed a thoughfulness for the others interests. Now, Valentines Day doesn't seem as daunting. Still don't know if I want to stay together with him but can stand to see his face now!