My husband had 2 AP’s that were both my best friends. The affairs were 20 years apart, 2 different best friends. Both were long term affairs, the first one was 3 years (emotional and physical) and probably would have been longer had they not been caught. The second one was 12 years (I’ve been told physical only, which I still find hard to believe). I only learned about the second one that ended in 2011 in October, 2023. Husband stopped affair and kept the lies going for 12 years until the AP started texting and that’s when everything blew up.
I never contacted the first AP. Therapy, prayer and faith in Jesus carried me through to total healing.
I have written letters to the second one with no response.
Double betrayal both times.
We’ve been married 52 years, a time in our lives we should be enjoying each other and happy. This last revelation has destroyed me. 9 months after D-day and I’m still crying every day. Husband is doing all he can to help me heal. I love him, but have lost respect, my dignity and self esteem.
I pray every day that we’ll get through this together.
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My husband had 2 AP’s that were both my best friends. The affairs were 20 years apart, 2 different best friends. Both were long term affairs, the first one was 3 years (emotional and physical) and probably would have been longer had they not been caught. The second one was 12 years (I’ve been told physical only, which I still find hard to believe). I only learned about the second one that ended in 2011 in October, 2023. Husband stopped affair and kept the lies going for 12 years until the AP started texting and that’s when everything blew up.
I never contacted the first AP. Therapy, prayer and faith in Jesus carried me through to total healing.
I have written letters to the second one with no response.
Double betrayal both times.
We’ve been married 52 years, a time in our lives we should be enjoying each other and happy. This last revelation has destroyed me. 9 months after D-day and I’m still crying every day. Husband is doing all he can to help me heal. I love him, but have lost respect, my dignity and self esteem.
I pray every day that we’ll get through this together.