I have heard every justification that anyone could possibly hear. Forty six years of cheating and lying takes a lot of self denial and a lot of justification. The unfortunate reality is the lies and denials have continued in "recovery" so there is no real recovery only "his" way. I do not believe my spouse ever began our marriage with any moral convictions he just pretended to the world to be someone he never was.
I have heard every
I have heard every justification that anyone could possibly hear. Forty six years of cheating and lying takes a lot of self denial and a lot of justification. The unfortunate reality is the lies and denials have continued in "recovery" so there is no real recovery only "his" way. I do not believe my spouse ever began our marriage with any moral convictions he just pretended to the world to be someone he never was.