Notice that these 'negative' comments are only given by the betrayed spouse? After my husband's betrayals (one affair seven years ago and one revealed in March with the same coworker) I have felt like a crazy person... not always rational, and hypersensitive. I second guess myself and have to concentrate very hard to handle the everyday stresses of being a full time middle school teacher, mom to three teenagers and on top of that, the stresses of being a military spouse, etc. I would love to hear a discussion or article about affairs in the military and the blatant permissive climate for extramarital affairs amongst its members that seems to have infiltrated its ranks.
Peace to all...
sensitivity