I have a similar issue in that I can not forgive my father-in-law for how he hurt me and my children. My father-in-law, however, not only knew about the affair, but helped to finance it so that I would not see the charges. My husband's AP lived less than a half mile from his father. Everytime my husband went to see his father, took his father on trips, etc....I believed it was just that....my husband and my father-in-law, spending time together.....I was wrong.
Even after my husband "supposedly" ended things with his AP - the AP visits with my father-in-law almost daily. My husband has visited his father twice since my discover, and both times he has seen his AP. My father-in-law allows the AP to use his phone to call my husband, as I had blocked her phone from his cell phone.
The story is similar with my two adult step-daughters. They are thrilled that my husband has abandoned me and our two kids (12 & 10). They argue with him whenever he suggests trying to work things out with us.
It just seems that it would be easier for me to walk away.....the pain could stop.
Father-in-law
I have a similar issue in that I can not forgive my father-in-law for how he hurt me and my children. My father-in-law, however, not only knew about the affair, but helped to finance it so that I would not see the charges. My husband's AP lived less than a half mile from his father. Everytime my husband went to see his father, took his father on trips, etc....I believed it was just that....my husband and my father-in-law, spending time together.....I was wrong.
Even after my husband "supposedly" ended things with his AP - the AP visits with my father-in-law almost daily. My husband has visited his father twice since my discover, and both times he has seen his AP. My father-in-law allows the AP to use his phone to call my husband, as I had blocked her phone from his cell phone.
The story is similar with my two adult step-daughters. They are thrilled that my husband has abandoned me and our two kids (12 & 10). They argue with him whenever he suggests trying to work things out with us.
It just seems that it would be easier for me to walk away.....the pain could stop.