My husband and I are seperated. He is the one who had the affair and wants a divorce but it doing nothing about making it happen. I have moved out, gotten my paperwork filed with my aunt who is my lawyer and was going to serve him papers....and I don't even want the divorce. I am realizing daily how co-dependent I am. I have decided to not serve him papers, and while I have moved out with my kids I am waiting for him to make the next move....
Meanwhile I am moving, dealing with all the emotions associated with my two young daughters as to why daddy isnt staying in our home, dealing with regressions in their progress with wetting the bed and needing a ton of attention.... I also need to find a job where I was a stay at home mom before and need to make sure I pay all of our bills for the apartment my husband still lives in as they were all in my name. I am trying to just get by...and really i need to learn how to heal and get through this...that is why I feel like I need this.
I don't know what to do
My husband and I are seperated. He is the one who had the affair and wants a divorce but it doing nothing about making it happen. I have moved out, gotten my paperwork filed with my aunt who is my lawyer and was going to serve him papers....and I don't even want the divorce. I am realizing daily how co-dependent I am. I have decided to not serve him papers, and while I have moved out with my kids I am waiting for him to make the next move....
Meanwhile I am moving, dealing with all the emotions associated with my two young daughters as to why daddy isnt staying in our home, dealing with regressions in their progress with wetting the bed and needing a ton of attention.... I also need to find a job where I was a stay at home mom before and need to make sure I pay all of our bills for the apartment my husband still lives in as they were all in my name. I am trying to just get by...and really i need to learn how to heal and get through this...that is why I feel like I need this.