Your website and videos have been immensely helpful to me after finding out about my husband’s online affair with the wife of one of his friends. I am dealing with a double betrayal. The affair lasted about 18 months to my knowledge. During this time, and also after my husband said he stopped the affair, he repeatedly brought this woman into my home. The level of deception and manipulation that has come to light is so unbearable to me. When my husband started the affair I was very sick on and off for almost 2 years. He did stand by me and take care of me during this time, but I feel it is all negated by the fact he betrayed me and broke our wedding vows so completely. (In good times and bad...in sickness and health) After I felt better, I told everyone who would listen that he was my hero, and he readily accepted my praise while still bring this woman around me. I also started to see some flirtatious behavior on her part which bothered me but I trusted my husband completely and felt secure about my marriage. I struggle every day, 18 months later. I feel like I'm floundering between anger, despair, disillusionment, and at a loss of what to do next. Distraction is the only thing that helps me through, it's clearly not enough. Please help.
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Your website and videos have been immensely helpful to me after finding out about my husband’s online affair with the wife of one of his friends. I am dealing with a double betrayal. The affair lasted about 18 months to my knowledge. During this time, and also after my husband said he stopped the affair, he repeatedly brought this woman into my home. The level of deception and manipulation that has come to light is so unbearable to me. When my husband started the affair I was very sick on and off for almost 2 years. He did stand by me and take care of me during this time, but I feel it is all negated by the fact he betrayed me and broke our wedding vows so completely. (In good times and bad...in sickness and health) After I felt better, I told everyone who would listen that he was my hero, and he readily accepted my praise while still bring this woman around me. I also started to see some flirtatious behavior on her part which bothered me but I trusted my husband completely and felt secure about my marriage. I struggle every day, 18 months later. I feel like I'm floundering between anger, despair, disillusionment, and at a loss of what to do next. Distraction is the only thing that helps me through, it's clearly not enough. Please help.