I'd love to be in the draw. I love what you do and follow your posts and blogs. It's almost 3 years since I discovered my husband's affair. We're ok-ish but I still struggle enormously with acceptance and living with this secret. Am I recovering? I feel like I've stopped. Sometimes I wonder if I can recover. If I am strong enough. I get so agitated that I am still so bothered by many aspects of what happened. I can't chang it. I can be logical about it. But it's dragging me down and I know it is dragging me down but I don't seem to be able to shake off the lead boots while I am living surrounded by reminders. I have no one IRL to talk to about this. H listens but doesn't know how to respond. So I now feel he's not the best sounding board for my distress.
Hanging in there
I'd love to be in the draw. I love what you do and follow your posts and blogs. It's almost 3 years since I discovered my husband's affair. We're ok-ish but I still struggle enormously with acceptance and living with this secret. Am I recovering? I feel like I've stopped. Sometimes I wonder if I can recover. If I am strong enough. I get so agitated that I am still so bothered by many aspects of what happened. I can't chang it. I can be logical about it. But it's dragging me down and I know it is dragging me down but I don't seem to be able to shake off the lead boots while I am living surrounded by reminders. I have no one IRL to talk to about this. H listens but doesn't know how to respond. So I now feel he's not the best sounding board for my distress.