I waited to get married a little later in my life because I did not want to get divorced and the men I had dated in my past I just could not see "til death do us part".
Then I met my husband. I have been married less than 2 years. My husband and I dated 5 full years before we were married. With my husband I could FINALLY see forever. Now I’m put in a situation where I never had wanted to be. I never thought I would be here. Shortly after we married I suspected my husband of infidelity. However, I blew it off because there was no way he would cheat on me as we had only been married 6 weeks!! Boy, was I wrong. In July of 2013, I found out that he was seeing someone.
My husband refuses, absolutely refuses to go to counseling. I am on my own. He won’t as much as read a book or participates in a daily exercise my counselors have given me. I am at a loss. My husband tells me he loves me, tells, me he doesn’t want a divorce but continues to do these things to me. He never did this before he was married to me.
I have become a suspicious angry nag. I don’t want to be that way. I hate the person I have become. I want to learn how to handle my situation the correct way. I don’t know what to do to save my marriage or turn it around and I don’t know how to leave. I am beaten down emotionally and need help back up, to learn to set boundaries that I can stick with and not sound like I’m his mother.
I would like to move on beyond the hurt and betrayal but I need the skills to do that. I took my vows seriously and I want to make every effort I can before I quit.
I NEED the Harboring Hope program. I don’t know what else to do or where to turn.
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I waited to get married a little later in my life because I did not want to get divorced and the men I had dated in my past I just could not see "til death do us part".
Then I met my husband. I have been married less than 2 years. My husband and I dated 5 full years before we were married. With my husband I could FINALLY see forever. Now I’m put in a situation where I never had wanted to be. I never thought I would be here. Shortly after we married I suspected my husband of infidelity. However, I blew it off because there was no way he would cheat on me as we had only been married 6 weeks!! Boy, was I wrong. In July of 2013, I found out that he was seeing someone.
My husband refuses, absolutely refuses to go to counseling. I am on my own. He won’t as much as read a book or participates in a daily exercise my counselors have given me. I am at a loss. My husband tells me he loves me, tells, me he doesn’t want a divorce but continues to do these things to me. He never did this before he was married to me.
I have become a suspicious angry nag. I don’t want to be that way. I hate the person I have become. I want to learn how to handle my situation the correct way. I don’t know what to do to save my marriage or turn it around and I don’t know how to leave. I am beaten down emotionally and need help back up, to learn to set boundaries that I can stick with and not sound like I’m his mother.
I would like to move on beyond the hurt and betrayal but I need the skills to do that. I took my vows seriously and I want to make every effort I can before I quit.
I NEED the Harboring Hope program. I don’t know what else to do or where to turn.