I discovered my husband’s infidelity 7 weeks ago. He did most of the common mistakes when confronted even when he admitted to what he has done initially. I feel so stupid that I ignored little sign’s I saw these past 5 years because I trusted him unconditionally for over 16 years of our marriage. I’m stuck, feeling anxiety, fear, pain and anger.
I don’t know how to accept or if I can accept the fact that he had sex with over 20 women - a different prostitute each time he went - over the course of close to 2 years if you combine the time he continuously went nonstop. He started pre-pandemic and only stopped in the middle because he was forced to stop for 1.5 years due to Covid.
Every marriage has some issues - no one is perfect even myself but that doesn’t justify looking for prostitutes. What’s worse is he’s a doctor so he’s confident of not getting STDs because he ‘knows the signs’. Can a professional be this stupid thinking he’s not going to get STDs?
He says he’s stopped and is committed to fixing the marriage. Can someone like this be trusted again? Has anyone experienced their husband going to so many prostitutes? How do you move on from this?
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I discovered my husband’s infidelity 7 weeks ago. He did most of the common mistakes when confronted even when he admitted to what he has done initially. I feel so stupid that I ignored little sign’s I saw these past 5 years because I trusted him unconditionally for over 16 years of our marriage. I’m stuck, feeling anxiety, fear, pain and anger.
I don’t know how to accept or if I can accept the fact that he had sex with over 20 women - a different prostitute each time he went - over the course of close to 2 years if you combine the time he continuously went nonstop. He started pre-pandemic and only stopped in the middle because he was forced to stop for 1.5 years due to Covid.
Every marriage has some issues - no one is perfect even myself but that doesn’t justify looking for prostitutes. What’s worse is he’s a doctor so he’s confident of not getting STDs because he ‘knows the signs’. Can a professional be this stupid thinking he’s not going to get STDs?
He says he’s stopped and is committed to fixing the marriage. Can someone like this be trusted again? Has anyone experienced their husband going to so many prostitutes? How do you move on from this?