Yep..I don't trust her

Wife is still in the midst of an over 2 year emotional affair. D-day was over 3 months ago. She has little self-awareness and is still in contact with the AP. In counseling, but not very motivated to step away from EA. Starting to wonder if I'm being naive to think she will let go and come back to the marriage. I had the same feelings as S; can she ever again be faithful? Do I want to go through my life with someone who isn't who they said they were?