I'm now a month knowing and my wife has giving me little information about the details, her plans, or her thoughts. I discovered the affair through her texts one morning after suspecting something. she says she needs time to think since I was neglectful for her needs and she's afraid to move forward. told me she "hates me for making her do this." I know she's having trouble with this too but how long can I wait for even a glimpse of caring /healing /or anything else from her? I'm willing to move forward to heal our marriage and I know my part in this. it hurts so much as I know everyone here can relate.
wish i had some answers....
I'm now a month knowing and my wife has giving me little information about the details, her plans, or her thoughts. I discovered the affair through her texts one morning after suspecting something. she says she needs time to think since I was neglectful for her needs and she's afraid to move forward. told me she "hates me for making her do this." I know she's having trouble with this too but how long can I wait for even a glimpse of caring /healing /or anything else from her? I'm willing to move forward to heal our marriage and I know my part in this. it hurts so much as I know everyone here can relate.