I read this article and thought Bingo! These are my husband. All of them. I've been trying the little things, but he pushes me away. Excuse for any and every time I try for intimacy. 16 months, EMS weekend, 7 weeks with group sessions. I tried. I gave him space and prayed that the little things, kissing 4 or more times a day. Prayed together in the morning. Tried complimenting him, bragging on him, joining his band wagon. Famous saying, if you can't beat them, join them. We do everything together. Even when he gets mad and asks for his space, he still asks me to go with him or help with what he is doing.
16 months and something told me to track him. See if he is being true to his word. Nope. Still seeing her. Caught him at her house.
That is why he is avoiding me and making as many excuses that he can't get it up. Creates projects just to avoid me. Stays on computer when he isn't working. Can't lay a hand on me, because it doesn't feel right. (it didn't bother him before) I tried. I prayed, respected, and gave him space. I even told him what he was purposely doing. Ruining our marriage. I didn't want a divorce, but he has left me no choice. He controls our marriage. I could go on, but this is a choice to stay with your lusting prostitute or working it out with your spouse.
Anorexic Marriage
I read this article and thought Bingo! These are my husband. All of them. I've been trying the little things, but he pushes me away. Excuse for any and every time I try for intimacy. 16 months, EMS weekend, 7 weeks with group sessions. I tried. I gave him space and prayed that the little things, kissing 4 or more times a day. Prayed together in the morning. Tried complimenting him, bragging on him, joining his band wagon. Famous saying, if you can't beat them, join them. We do everything together. Even when he gets mad and asks for his space, he still asks me to go with him or help with what he is doing.
16 months and something told me to track him. See if he is being true to his word. Nope. Still seeing her. Caught him at her house.
That is why he is avoiding me and making as many excuses that he can't get it up. Creates projects just to avoid me. Stays on computer when he isn't working. Can't lay a hand on me, because it doesn't feel right. (it didn't bother him before) I tried. I prayed, respected, and gave him space. I even told him what he was purposely doing. Ruining our marriage. I didn't want a divorce, but he has left me no choice. He controls our marriage. I could go on, but this is a choice to stay with your lusting prostitute or working it out with your spouse.