I have stuffed my hurt and angry feelings from his first affair 18 years ago and now his second affair and all the verbal/emotional abuse I have received for the past 30 years. That explains the bitterness and resentment that I feel and why I can't seem to get past it all and forgive. All those years of hurt just keep bubbling out. He won't be totally honest about his affairs and there is no honest dialogue. Can't believe anything he says anymore anyway. Too many empty promises and lies. And still happening after EMSW, HH, and numerous therapists, including Rick. Now what? Any help or suggestions would be appreciated.
have been doing this for 30 years
I have stuffed my hurt and angry feelings from his first affair 18 years ago and now his second affair and all the verbal/emotional abuse I have received for the past 30 years. That explains the bitterness and resentment that I feel and why I can't seem to get past it all and forgive. All those years of hurt just keep bubbling out. He won't be totally honest about his affairs and there is no honest dialogue. Can't believe anything he says anymore anyway. Too many empty promises and lies. And still happening after EMSW, HH, and numerous therapists, including Rick. Now what? Any help or suggestions would be appreciated.