Thank you for your post… When I read it, it was almost as if I had written it myself.
Unfortunately, we are 10 months in and my husband is telling me that the pain is too much and he needs to leave to stop it.
I continue to fight for our marriage and love him completely.
I pray and hope he will choose love instead of fear in the end but right now it looks and feels grim.
I know I can only control myself and I have committed to never leaving or replacing my husband and I will take that vow to my grave no matter where he/we land. He is the only person I have ever loved and have ever trusted to be completely vulnerable with.
Good luck to you… it sounds like you have a strong and brave husband who is committed to your marriage and the work of recovery.
The Fear is Winning
Thank you for your post… When I read it, it was almost as if I had written it myself.
Unfortunately, we are 10 months in and my husband is telling me that the pain is too much and he needs to leave to stop it.
I continue to fight for our marriage and love him completely.
I pray and hope he will choose love instead of fear in the end but right now it looks and feels grim.
I know I can only control myself and I have committed to never leaving or replacing my husband and I will take that vow to my grave no matter where he/we land. He is the only person I have ever loved and have ever trusted to be completely vulnerable with.
Good luck to you… it sounds like you have a strong and brave husband who is committed to your marriage and the work of recovery.