This was the most insightful article for me to date. I have also been tempted many times in my marriage of 35 years. I just made different choices than my spouse. I do feel a little puzzled as he tells me now he has "never been tempted since his affairs ended". My gut tells me this is not the truth ( there have been some questionable behaviors since) so I remain a little suspicious.
Temptation
This was the most insightful article for me to date. I have also been tempted many times in my marriage of 35 years. I just made different choices than my spouse. I do feel a little puzzled as he tells me now he has "never been tempted since his affairs ended". My gut tells me this is not the truth ( there have been some questionable behaviors since) so I remain a little suspicious.