God spoke to me in a thought:" Would you be willing to LET your husband be a good man once again?" That question started to turn this ship around in my thinking. It's been slow but steady. Reading Rick's article also on shaming someone for what they did facilitates their inability to not make it about them again. And as a result, it makes them continue in their selfishness and inability to "hear" you and feel your pain. Do we want to do that deliberately or inadvertently?
Honor
God spoke to me in a thought:" Would you be willing to LET your husband be a good man once again?" That question started to turn this ship around in my thinking. It's been slow but steady. Reading Rick's article also on shaming someone for what they did facilitates their inability to not make it about them again. And as a result, it makes them continue in their selfishness and inability to "hear" you and feel your pain. Do we want to do that deliberately or inadvertently?