Thank you for this. Truly. I spend three to four hours on the internet everyday looking for comfort and this has really helped. It explains my husband's apparent lack of remorse and his outbursts of pure, white-hot rage when I confront him about the fact that he has not severed ties with the OW. I never nag. I've only ever dared speak about my feelings twice before. But maybe now if I approach him from the angle of his own pain, I can get through. So grateful for your candor!
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Thank you for this. Truly. I spend three to four hours on the internet everyday looking for comfort and this has really helped. It explains my husband's apparent lack of remorse and his outbursts of pure, white-hot rage when I confront him about the fact that he has not severed ties with the OW. I never nag. I've only ever dared speak about my feelings twice before. But maybe now if I approach him from the angle of his own pain, I can get through. So grateful for your candor!