I agree, the first thing I asked my husband when I found out about his cheating was....How could you go to church each Sunday, stay active in church groups, be a volunteer for youth activities all while lying to me and having sex with someone else? His response was "my spiritual life and my marriage are two separate things and have nothing to do with each other". What a rediculous thing to think and say! Where was he when we said our vows in the church?! I agree with you...the sin is not in being tempted, it is in falling to the temptation.
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I agree, the first thing I asked my husband when I found out about his cheating was....How could you go to church each Sunday, stay active in church groups, be a volunteer for youth activities all while lying to me and having sex with someone else? His response was "my spiritual life and my marriage are two separate things and have nothing to do with each other". What a rediculous thing to think and say! Where was he when we said our vows in the church?! I agree with you...the sin is not in being tempted, it is in falling to the temptation.