confusedman thanks for the comment and watching. it's tough. there are uniform principles for sure, but the way you get there can be different for sure. for women, the emotional connection (typically) is strong so there has to be a strong sense of community for the women to go to which is 1. safe 2. engaging 3. infidelity based/related (like the hope for healing course on the site) as it creates a place for the unf spouse to go to to find connection rather than just going right to the affair partner. Also, the female unfaithful can 'woman up' if you will by doing recovery work on regaining "respect" & finding new appreciation for their male spouse. also, for the women it's common to put in place a 'no physical intimacy w/their husband for 30 to 90 days to help them re engage' slowly but surely. it takes a strategy that's a bit different than the man, while also engaging the normal pitfalls of the unfaithful spouse. there are more but i'm not sure if this is hitting home or what you were looking for? at any rate, appreciate your commenting and watching.
good question...