Hi! My wayward spouse and I are trying to work on things but today we were discussing finances. We're 2 months from Dday and he's not living in our home anymore. Today he was exasperated with our discussion on divying up the bills. On Christmas his car was totalled while it was parked in front of his affair partner's house. I was late on paying the insurance so there was no coverage. He is now stuck with the totalled car's loan and his new car loan. While I accept that I should've told him about the insurance, he wouldn't have had the accident if he was not there to begin with. Anyway he's blaming me for that and I'm angry about it. How can I address this with him? Or is this just abuse that I should walk away from?
Still getting blamed
Hi! My wayward spouse and I are trying to work on things but today we were discussing finances. We're 2 months from Dday and he's not living in our home anymore. Today he was exasperated with our discussion on divying up the bills. On Christmas his car was totalled while it was parked in front of his affair partner's house. I was late on paying the insurance so there was no coverage. He is now stuck with the totalled car's loan and his new car loan. While I accept that I should've told him about the insurance, he wouldn't have had the accident if he was not there to begin with. Anyway he's blaming me for that and I'm angry about it. How can I address this with him? Or is this just abuse that I should walk away from?