Cred, similar here. My WH’s depression got worse so I did what you did, I offered support in ways I knew how, but focused on my happiness instead of trying to be happy because he was happy. Then, he had an affair. It was damned if I did, damned if I do. I tried working on intimacy with him, his most complained need at the time, but I just didn’t feel safe. Shortly after that, life blew up. I would like insight on it as well.
Cred, similar here. My WH’s
Cred, similar here. My WH’s depression got worse so I did what you did, I offered support in ways I knew how, but focused on my happiness instead of trying to be happy because he was happy. Then, he had an affair. It was damned if I did, damned if I do. I tried working on intimacy with him, his most complained need at the time, but I just didn’t feel safe. Shortly after that, life blew up. I would like insight on it as well.