you're so kind...glad the videos are helping

hi stephanie, thanks so much for your kind words.  gives me great hope.  i'm glad you're seeing things a bit differently and moving forward in your own recovery.  your perspective is spot on:  transmitting our pain only makes things worse.  it delays your own healing and it causes more frustration as we're focused on our spouse not ourselves.  but, i do know that it's frustrating as all get out as it's raw pain and anger.  i'm so glad you're here and healing my friend.