It doesn't matter if it involves infidelity, emotional abuse, or wanting to buy new house. The indecisiveness, the ambivalence over everything drove me crazy. The contradictions in his words drove me crazy. My husband and I finally had a breakthrough last night. As I asked the same questions to him over and over again trying to connect the dots as to how "this" relates to "that" in his decision to sleep with another woman, I was able to finally get him to say the words "I wanted a divorce. I wanted to have sex with -----." It forced him to stop dancing around why he did what he did and take some accountability for the choices that HE made. You definitely have some decisions to make, but I encourage you to get off the rollercoaster ride that he is taking you on so that you can think straight.
Rollercoaster Ride
A rollercoaster ride is a rollercoaster ride.
It doesn't matter if it involves infidelity, emotional abuse, or wanting to buy new house. The indecisiveness, the ambivalence over everything drove me crazy. The contradictions in his words drove me crazy. My husband and I finally had a breakthrough last night. As I asked the same questions to him over and over again trying to connect the dots as to how "this" relates to "that" in his decision to sleep with another woman, I was able to finally get him to say the words "I wanted a divorce. I wanted to have sex with -----." It forced him to stop dancing around why he did what he did and take some accountability for the choices that HE made. You definitely have some decisions to make, but I encourage you to get off the rollercoaster ride that he is taking you on so that you can think straight.
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