Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Hi! My husband and I have been trying to reconcile after I discovered his infidelity about a year ago. I do not feel safe secure in our relationship at all because he has relapsed and has continued some contact with his two APs. One more than the other because he works with her, although, he is the boss and could get rid of her in my opinion. So, I feel we need some better boundaries in order for us to build trust and move forward.  …