Q&A Looking for Hope Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Attended EMS March 2014. Learned term ACOA. Husband grew up in very abusive home. I have learned in therapy, I come from ACOA family too but have abandonment issues. Husband did Ems home work for about 6 weeks then stopped as he said too painful to listen to others pain. He moved out in August as he learned our 18 yr old daughter knew of his infidelity. ( supposed 3 yr emotional , which he says he has broken off ). We have been going to…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Breaking Off The AffairEmotional RegulationFind HopeFor The Hurt SpouseRelapse PreventionSafety in RecoveryRL_Media Type: Audio