You also say that there's no comparison because our life was based in reality. I am struggling to understand why my husband would leave me for a 24-year-old prostitute. We are a Christian family (and not in name only) with seven children and I have always been faithful to him and thought we were best friends. And he chose somebody at the opposite end of the spectrum in many ways. But I struggle with comparisons of her body and her appearance. I am having a hard time accepting that he would leave me for her. He says he was completely deceived and in a haze at the time. Thank you.