Q&A Does Divorce Help Lessen Triggers? Question Hi Leslie and John, I have a question about triggers/intrusive thoughts. My original Dday was over a year ago and the last one was in February 2016. My husband was in an emotional and physical affair that he kept going during our "recovery." We are in limbo right now and considering options. We talk about separation and divorce but our stance on it changes continually. We don't like the option of divorce because of our children/family but we also don't like the option of sta…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationIntrusive ThoughtsSeparation and DivorceTrauma of InfidelityRL_Media Type: Audio