Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question It’s been 9 months since D-Day and the unfaithful spouse has been, let’s say following all the classic progressions and putting in the time: we did EMS at 3 months after D-Day(just what was available timing wise), and she (did H4H); that just ended. So objectively she is doing the work and subjectively moving her heart in the right direction toward God. But it’s still so hard for her to see how deep a hole she put me in. Of course…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFind HopeFor The Hurt SpouseHow to ForgiveIntrusive ThoughtsTrauma of InfidelityRL_Media Type: Audio