We are two weeks past the one year D-Day anniversary. As of the end of April this year, the affair partner was still trying to reach out to my husband. As of mid-May he was still curious about her and has googled her. When I ask him if there has been any communication he says no. What other ways can I ask if there has been any contact? He thinks as long as he doesn't reply that means there has been no communication. I need to know if there has been any interaction not just communication including any viewing of social media, googling of her, following of similar people or pages etc. How best do I ask for this information so that he understands the level of transparency I need to feel safe?