My husband has a lot of resentment towards me because of perceived rejection from unmet needs, physical rejection, and disrespect. He had a type 2 affair with a coworker and is currently ambivalent and is not willing to stop talking to her. He talks with her at work and through a secret email account. He is living at home, but in a separate room. We have 3 kids. She has asked him to leave me several times and he has said that he is unable to decide. She has been getting text messages from other men. She says that because of her personality, other guys think she's interested. What do I do? How do I help him move past the resentment towards me?