I'm having to put on a brave face for our children who are 18 & 20 in spite of my husband’s betrayal. The children know we had difficulties in our relationship this year but don't know the details. I know how dysfunction at home can cause one to seek out relationships with other dysfunctional people because you feel they understand and I don't want my children going through that but it's hard keeping up appearances. What do you suggest that I do? I fear what disclosure would do to them and to their relationship with their Dad. We pastor a church of young adults who are millennials and I also fear what disclosure would do to them and their faith journey.