My husband's affair type is sexual addiction having had at least a dozen short and long term affairs over the course of our 45 year marriage. We did the Boot Camp together and we are both currently half way through Harboring Hope and Hope for Healing. My husband refuses to terminate with his affair partner - he has been involved with her behind my back for the last 15 years - he says that they are 'just close friends' and he believes I am being controlling by asking him to terminate for the 90 day period. Is going no contact with the affair partner suggested or discussed during Hope for Healing? My husband has told me that there is no mention of this in his Hope for Healing group discussions or assignments.