I am 6 weeks out from the initial D-Day with multiple bombshells subsequently occurring once lies were challenged. One particularly hurtful finding is that my husband's affair partner got pregnant and had a child a week ago (she text and sent him a picture). We have two children. To make matters worse upon asking him I discovered that the pregnancy was not an accident as he originally claimed and that it was a baby they planned together. I am utterly devastated with all aspects of the affair, giving her large sums of our money etc. but this is almost unbearable. He wants to reconcile but how do you heal from this level of betrayal?