You guys have helped me with a question or two on here and I want to personally thank both of you for taking extra time to help us with all the questions that come your way. AR is truly an amazing community of people. THANK YOU! My question is about post-divorce. I recently filed for divorce from my wife who left me for her AP late last year. I did not want this and I truly wish she would have just come out of her fog and limerence, but I do not think she will. Not any time soon at least. She left me with no choice, but to file because she is in a fully committed relationship with her AP. My question is how will I know when the time is right to date again? How can I be able to trust another person like I did my wife? I know God will lead me to the right person when I am spiritually and mentally ready, but how will I know when it is the right one? I’m so very moved and motivated by the relationship between the two of you and I pray I can have the same one day.