I’m in week 3 of Harboring Hope going through the different types of affairs. Is it possible for him to have had 3 types? I think his 4 year affair was category 4: having your cake an eating it too. He is also in an emotional affair currently I believe with someone from work. He also fits into the sexual addiction category with his behaviors. It is like he has changed “types of affairs” over the 13 years of infidelity. This is making it even MORE confusing for me. How do I even begin to address all of this in my recovery and the possibility of moving forward with a new marriage with my husband? It is making it seem even more impossible.