I ask because as the betrayed most people are doing all the wrongs things to help. In a lot of ways it feels like they are betraying me. Calling but giving horrible advice. Knowing I'm not eating but not saying, “Hey, let me stop by and bring you something.” They have no idea about the power of a hug, just listening or checking in. It would so awesome to have a video to help friends understand how to help us through the grieving process. Maybe it has been thought of and not done for some reason. Just thinking out loud. Thanks for all you have done. This community you have built saved my sanity.