Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I feel like in therapy and life we focus more on past problems in our marriage rather than the affair. I know we need to fix what was wrong but no one seems to understand my need to work thru the affair part. It's like it's all about him..... just like the affair was. When is it my turn? Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryStrengthening MarriageWhy Marriages FailWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Video