Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: For background she was throwing it at her affair partners and that was her method of getting attention prior to our marriage. Having that knowledge tells me that she isn't trying very hard and isn't all in if she still expects me to pursue her and expects me to meet all of her needs prior to being sexual.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video