Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? Question: My husband was texting his affair partner and telling her that he lover her. He says he did that to end the affair. That is what I saw on D-Day. It was an emotional affair and went on for almost 2 years. They were obsessed till the end, 5,500 texts per month and numerous phone calls daily plus she was a co-worker so they saw each other every work day. He never let me see his phone after he was accidentally caught. He said she coerced him to say it. I do not believe it. I think he just got to close and never thought he would get caught. Your thoughts? Rick's suggested resources: How Could You? A 6 Part Series EMS Online - an online course for couples.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Video