Q&A How Can I Help My Betrayed Mate Stay in the Present? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: How can I help my mate stay in the present instead of in the past. My betrayals due to my addictive behaviors and multiple affairs has cause so much pain she does not believe any memories are unique to her. She feels have used the same lines on my affair conquests that I spoke to her in loveSections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationQ&A Recovery LibraryTrauma of InfidelityRL_Media Type: Video