Hi Rick, My husband and I attended EMS and you sent us home with some pretty intense instructions of how we were to heal. Since being home he disclosed another betrayal. He still has a lot of shame and is very impatient with me. Can you tell me how to heal, and learn to trust him when he isn't patient with how long my recovery is taking? He complains that I still don't trust, and that I still ask too many questions about his day at work . I ask a lot about his days at work because he works with so many women and 3 of 4 betrayals were while he was at work. I don't trust him while he is at work. Can you help me by telling me how to get through this? And tell me how I can feel safe with someone who seems to be so selfish and self-centered? Thank u. Any feedback is greatly appreciated.