First of all, thank you for providing so much help, lessons, and knowledge to the subject of affair recovery. I am confident that our marriage would be in danger had we not found Affair Recovery and attended EMSO. I am extremely grateful. I am the unfaithful husband in our story. My wife and I are nearing our 1 year anniversary of D-Day this month. We have been processing and reprocessing many things dealing with my affair. One of which was depth of loss that I had not understood before, and I am not sure where to go with it. My wife shared that the sanctuary of our marriage being clean of sexual sin had been lost, of course, due to my choices. You see, until my affair, my wife and I were each other's only sexual partners. Now, that has been lost, and I am not sure what we need to be able handle this. I know that what I did cannot be undone, but how are we to believe that our marriage can be cleansed once more? There is a lot spoken about starting a new marriage, but does that apply in this case as well? I really understand where my wife is coming from and I am seeking guidance for possible resources regarding this. I even understand that every couple might process this loss differently, but I'm sure we are not the only ones that have dealt with this.