Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I have promised my wife not to look at pornography or masterbate. My balls and lower abdomen ache all the time, all day long. It is very distracting. It makes me think of sex more, not less. Does this go away over time? How often should a man ejaculate? I have always called this my sex drive. My wife says I have a sex addiction. Any advice?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For the Unfaithful SpouseQ&A Recovery LibrarySexual AddictionRL_Media Type: Video